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Friday, July 23, 2010
Death By Jjovina


Death comes with no warning, it heeds no notice. It just comes and takes our loved ones away. We struggle to understand. We struggle to find comfort. We struggle to cope. It is not easy to say goodbye.

To handle all these things aint easy for human beings of all ages. We are made up of mostly emotions and hence once the emotions are triggered, we would break down. In this month, I've witness the death of 2 of my relatives. I've attended 2 funerals. I've seen countless people crying over the death of loved ones. Humans are weak, life is fragile. We cannot do anything to stop god from taking the man we loved away from us. But what can we do instead?

To think on the brighter side, death offers peace. Peace to those who have gone on. The pain of existence here on Earth is no longer. They are no longer susceptible to sadness, disappointment, grief, pain or sickness. To know that our loved ones are free from all troubles on earth, it'll make you feel so much better. Even though the paths after death for them is unknown, but we must hold the belief that they will lead a better angelic life someone virtual out there.

To me, death is not just someone who has passed on. Personally death applies to things as well. Such as relationship between humans. There are deaths too. When everything seem so hopeless and its unable to be salvaged, its proclaimed dead.

Usually, we dont accept deaths. We would go into denial when we face them. Following into a state of anger and then to a state of shock and eventually acceptance. Its a cycle that everyone will undergo. To understand that deaths are part and parcels of life and to really accept it is two different issues. Hence , as we grow older, we will face more of such. To be able to handle them and move on is what we need to learn in life.

Many lessons that we need to learn in life and one of them includes facing death :)







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